Tuesday, June 24, 2008

My First Love

Evening Babies, I was just satting here thanking bout life and love. I started thinking bout all the mens I loved before. Well for a moment I started remembaing my first late husband who might surprise yall to know was a Puerto Rican lover. I used to calls him Mr. Garcia cause he was a short man who all ways wanted to prove to the world that he was tuff. Well to make his self asteem betta I called him Mr. Garcia. You know showing him some respect and all.

Anyway that man loved his family and he loved him some me. I really did cares bout Mr. Garcia but I just couldn't see myself having all them childrens he wanted. Funny thang is 6 husbands and many mens later I still ended up with 13 childrens. Oh well we live and we learn.

So babies, tells Old Ruthie Ann bout your first love. Go ahead and talk. I'm be listening while I sat ova here at the table and work on this batch of hog head cheese that Pastor want for the Annual Usher Banquet. He says ain't no party or celebration complete without the presence of the Lawd and a hog head cheese and crackers table. I loves my Pastor cause he sho knows how to put on a party to celebrate the working saints who keep the house of the Lawd in tact through theys hard labor. I still thank he helped Usher Lena get that tummy tuck she had last year. Hell I don't quite blame him though. Woman was so big she knocked a differant mother's hat off every sangle week for months. Them old womens was racing to the pew to keep from being on the end sit casing big booty belly Usher Lena was on duty. One thang as a Pastor that you don't eva eva wanna do is make the Mother's Board mad. Well yall gone head and tell me bout your first love. Chile' I'm listenin'.

17 comments:

Dreamy said...

my first love just blew my heart away. shyt i have blogged about him. yeah that would be E.

E. was so good to me in the beginning(but dont they all do), then he starting hoeing and shyt.

so needless to say he cheated with baby mama, and the married the ugly heifer. Ms Ruthie the hiefer aint got nothing on me,hmmmmp.

Anywho it was for the best. I am happy and content now and no mo stressing.

Now thats a nigga i would have hurt if i had my's razor blade

Dreamy

fuzzy said...

my first love walked out the door without giving much of a second chance! I am a lil bitter so I am going to stop here!

The F_Uitlist said...

My first love is also my dear hubby! 17 years and going strong (he adds 3 more years because he was telling everyone I was his girlfriend before I ever really was).

Tyhitia Green said...

First love? Or first REAL love? Sometimes we think we're in love when we're not...lol.

All-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalo said...

thats nice
the last woman i was with
wanted to kill my son and hated my family - for no reason
knew then would work
family first

Nicole, Inc. said...

My first love broke my heart. He was great in the beginning (doesn't it always start like that?) After three years together he told me that he couldn't do it anymore and that his mother said that its best that he tell me instead of walking around like everything was alright. I was like "Yo momma" what the hell she got to do with anything. Well, anyway, it really hurt when he broke up with me and took me awhile to get over that mess.

the old me said...

My first love...

Thinking back I really loved him. He seemed to be perfect. He told me all the right things. He bought me everything I ever wanted and needed without asking much from me. I loved him...but there was one problem.

He wasn't, how shall I say, packing the meat the way my freezer needed to be filled! He was perfect except for the fact that I couldn't feel a thing during sex. I still miss him but I'm glad I found some better dic...oops, I mean I'm glad I found a better man.

Miss Snarky Pants said...

Let's see...My first love was:

Older...
[obviously] Wiser...
Took my virginity...
Left me alone to raise a baby...
and has been ZERO help to me ever since...

What a waste huh?!?!?!

Mizrepresent said...

I just recently wrote about my first love T...and one of the best, if not the best love in my life. He was the first to show me how a man (young man at that) loves a woman,completly and honestly.

FlyyGurl said...

well...I dont think I've been in love. Maybe I am right now....I dont think i know quite what love is...the dude that I'm with wasnt the one to take my virginity though he did introduce me to the magnums if ya know what Im sayin! lol ok back on track.lol we've been at this 8 mths now, and every mth he gets a new itch in hios dick that he must scratch and so we argue and he says we shldnt talk nemore.....meaning after i get some new kitty to ease this itch ill b back...i liked him most cuz hes 26 and i thot hed wanna settle down..but he's in love with him, and I am lookin for love.

kit von b. said...

my 1st love took my virginity...

i blinked my eyes and he got some other girl pregnant.

that's the way love goes.

-KB

The Socialite said...

My first love has been the only guy that I have truly been in love with. We have been dealing with each other for about 5 years now, and are currently on a break from being in a realtionship. We have been through so many up and downs, its crazy! We have both cheated, lied, cried, and turned around to make each other smile again. Who knows what the future holds for us, but I can't imagine him not being in my life!

kayellejaye said...

My first love was...
my longest relationship(3 yrs).
my best friend.
the one Mom still wants me to marry.
the only guy to cry in front of me.
the one I still compare other guys to.

ShardonaySays said...

im still wit my first love. its been only 3 years but everything is still good

i.can't.complain. said...
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i.can't.complain. said...

mother ruthie ann & mother mabel

my 1st love was a high yellow sex-muffin from my sophomore yr in college

i loved that man w/all i had

and when all i had wasn't enough

i had 2 let him go

-1-

All-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalo said...

them hats is fire folk LOL
sorry didnt mean to offend yawl